Making the Final College Choice
Friday, April 2nd, 2010
Early April can be the best of times—and the worst of times—if you are a college applicant. Those who are fortunate to have received good news from colleges are understandably elated. For them, the process of making the final choice begins now.
Earlier this week, I received an email from the mother of a young woman whom I had met earlier in the year. Her daughter, Ali, had done well (admitted to six of seven schools and placed on one Wait List) with her applications and her mom was understandably excited. Now, she wanted to know how to help Ali sort through her options.
Ali had already ruled out one college and, upon visiting two others, had decided against them as well. She is keen on two schools, one mid-sized and the other small, and is dallying with the idea of an honors program at a state university. In her heart (according to her mom), though, it seems she really wants a smaller school. Ali is planning to visit the small school even though it is the only one that has yet to offer her financial aid. Her mother also wants to know how to approach the Wait List situation. I offered the following feedback to Ali’s mom and pass it along here in the event you are grappling with similar issues.
1. Ali needs to revisit her educational priorities. At this point in the process, it’s easy to become distracted by the commotion surrounding “who’s getting in and where.” She needs to focus on three basic questions: “Why do I want to go to college?” “In what type of academic environment do I function most comfortably?” “What are the three things I want to make sure I accomplish by the time I graduate?” If she is true to herself, the answers to these questions will guide her to a final choice with which she will be most comfortable.
2. Visiting the campuses of her top choices is a must as Ali is preparing to “buy.” She should spend twenty-four hours (not on a weekend!) on each campus of interest and immerse herself in the “neighborhoods” of the campus in which she is likely to spend much of her time once enrolled. She needs to talk with students and professors (outside of the panel discussions at open house programs that are scripted for her benefit) about their experiences. In which environment can she see herself functioning most comfortably?
3. She needs to figure out where the Wait List school fits in the picture. If it is a clear first choice, then she should remain active on the Wait List. Wait Lists are likely to move this year so Ali needs to provide new information (scores, grades, awards) and demonstrate her commitment to enroll if accepted. A campus visit can be an important expression of that interest. I do not, however, recommend remaining active just to see if she can get in—this is not a time for “fishing expeditions.” Her actions should be purposeful and reflect conviction.
4. Finally, Ali needs to make sure she clearly understands the financial aid awards she receives. Award letters, at their best, can be very confusing. At this stage of the game, it is vital that she compares “apples with apples.” Moreover, her parents need to be frank with her about the impact of cost/financial aid from their vantage point. While they might have personal preferences, are there any deal-breakers financially? It’s better for her to know of any such limitations as soon as possible.
The next month promises to be highly energized as college-bound students zero in on their final college choices. Getting it “right” is critical as the Best College Fit™ (BCF) program continues to cover the admission process through the final decision-making process. The March 24 BCF Web-Side Chat webcast, “Strategies for Evaluating Enrollment Options,” featured a discussion that covered the above topics and much more including tips for navigating the Wait List. A recording of that webcast is available in the BCF archives.
On April 7, the Web-Side Chat webcast, “Evaluating Financial Aid Options,” will compare actual financial aid awards and provide advice with regard to next steps in making the final choice of a college. In addition, the “College Talk” email forum provides on-going conversational opportunity throughout the month. To join the conversation, you must first subscribe to Best College Fit™ . The 30-day subscription rate is $19.95.
